We've been talking about this article from Saturday's Guardian a lot in the office - it's a series of short interviews with anonymised members of the public about their finances and whether they feel rich or poor. In some regards, it's obviously designed to wind up Guardian readers with some very well-off people bemoaning what they perceive as relative poverty. It's very effective in that capacity! The guy with a family income of £100k to £150k who says "What we are is the forgotten middle" is a comic genius.
The thing is, whether the person or family feel rich or poor actually bears little relation to their level of income. What matters is their level of income compared to the level of income they perceive that they deserve, or are worth, or that they know or imagine that others have. Clearly, a family with an income of £130,000 a year have no right to claim that they're not well off, in the minds of most people. If a family has a net income of something like £7,500 a month but can't save up for a deposit for a house, then that probably isn't because they're not well off - it's because they're choosing to allocate their income towards things other than savings. It's often easier for others to see that than it is to see it yourself, though - we often speak with people who don't think they can save anything but are making monthly payments on a very expensive car, for example.
But, just because someone isn't poor doesn't mean they don't genuinely believe that they are. The title of the article, "Do Britons feel rich or poor?" is very important - it's not a question of whether you *are* rich or poor, it's a question of whether you *feel* rich or poor. For a useful insight into those feelings, I often recommend reading the excellent "The Millionaire Next Door". Amongst other things, it makes a convincing case that those who manage to save and accumulate wealth and security are usually those who, rather than constantly moving to better houses and neighbourhoods, stay put. If you move into an area where people are relatively wealthy, you may have a pretty expensive set of possessions and lifestyles to compare your own to - and they'll only get more high-maintenance as you climb the ladder. If you stay in a more modest neighbourhood, you'll be surrounded by less expensive lives, and you may be just as happy.
If you're the woman in the article who is discontented with her £1m income, there's no hope for you, though.