If you’re a business owner, imagine an employee comes to you asking for a change to their pay arrangements.
“I was wondering if you could pay me less than I’m due most months, but then occasionally pay me a much bigger lump, once I’m really struggling. And could you also pay for some of my personal costs, then wait until I’ve forgotten about them before making me pay the money back?”
You’d probably refuse, telling your employee that’s a chaotic way to run their finances, and that you care too much about them to enable self-destructive behaviour like that. Regular, predictable pay is definitely better for everyone in the long run.
“How about if I only make my expense claims every three years, so that you don’t really have a full idea of your overheads, and I never have a clear idea of how much money I have in the long run?”
You’d probably turn that request down too, and encourage them to do their expenses monthly, so that everyone knows where they stand (and so that it’s not a massive task down the line to figure out what they were doing years ago).
It’s exactly how lots of business owners treat themselves though. Look after yourself in the same way you’d look after that employee.